What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?

If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.

~KSR

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.

But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.

Or because they’re happy without you.

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If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.

True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.

I love getting tired of loving that someone though…

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Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?

Or because she doesn’t love you back?

Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.

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If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,

You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?

Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?

Do you regret being married to your current wife?

Because you were just unlucky in love?

You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.

Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?

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You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.

Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?

Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.

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Because you are in sorrow without them?

Because it hurts that they are not with you?

Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?

How do women feel when they are in love?

Because only you LOVED?

It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.

Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.

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